I'm sorry to see you go Erin. But, I'm sure I will see you around the store.
I'd like to address something, though. People get involved with a hobby because they have a passion for that hobby. When that passion dwindles for whatever reason, that person usually finds a new hobby, takes a break, or starts a new project related to their hobby. That is just the way hobbies work. Some people that leave never come back, some return with a renewed passion for the hobby. It doesn't mean those people are no longer friends and most would be welcomed back with open arms at anytime.....and they know it or should. There is no reason to chase after those people that have left saying "Wait Comeback! We need you!" like a jilted lover. We are all adults for the most part and can make a decision as simple as whether or not to play toy soldiers. 40K is not a cult, it is a hobby. Some of us become really good friends, some are even like family. So, we have to respect our friend's decisions. Even if we don't like those decisions. I really don't think it is about apathy but, respect.
I think we have a solid community here. It is not toxic, at least no more toxic than any other community I have ever seen. I have seen other 40K groups tear each other apart until there are hardly any players left. I have seen racing groups with more drama than daytime TV. I have seen civic organizations accomplish nothing but raising each other's blood pressure. If something involves a group of people there will be drama. Collectively, the 40K community in Austin continues to have a strong 40K night, we help each other with list building, models, etc., we have strong tournament turnouts, and we have had some great road trips and more of those to come.
That is just my two cents.