As a rule of thumb for most areas/gaming communities I find that not taking a "Lord" level speacial character at first is key. Outside of that, it is really only Teclis and the Book of Hoeth that people really get annoyed with. I would say, that if you stay within those parameters, you should be fine no matter the area/gaming community. I haven't had anyone complain about any list I've taken as long as those items are left out.